Help Him Choose The Perfect Engagement Ring
HLL x Help Him Choose The Perfect Engagement Ring

@iluvsarahii recently got engaged to @ayyysebas, and we are loving their engagement photos!

Buying an engagement ring is tricky for men because it decides the impression they make on their lady while proposing to her. He will surely want a perfect ring to get an affirmative answer when he pops the big question.

Whether he is a novice shopper or knows the intricacies of jewelry buying, expect this decision to be one of the most challenging ones he will have to make up to this point in your relationship. Typically, a jewelry purchase of this magnitude is quite a stressful process as he must choose a ring without your help. Not to mention, it could be a costly mistake if not executed properly.

To avoid any undesirable outcomes, knowing you well makes matching the ring with your expectations easier than he thinks. In an effort to help your partner decide on the most ideal ring of choice, we have outlined four key qualities to consider and a curated list of engagement rings (coming soon) to pique your interest as well as his to equip you both for this decision of a lifetime.

01

Personality

A perfect jewelry piece should match the wearer's personality, and this rule applies to engagement rings, too. Moreover, the selection becomes pretty straightforward when he matches it with your personality. For example, he can choose a classy and sophisticated ring if your personal style is already a reflection of these qualities. Alternatively, a flashy ring with a large diamond is more likely a match for a woman who loves luxury. He will presumably know your taste and preferences after spending time with you up to this point. If he keeps an eye on the pieces you wear every day, this will be an effortless observation.

02

Lifestyle

Another quality he must consider for a perfect match is whether the ring complements your lifestyle. You will want to wear your ring every day, so to miss this point would be disastrous. He must identify what type of lifestyle you have to find the right engagement ring design so that you will feel comfortable wearing it in different settings. A simple engagement ring is ideal for working professionals as they could prefer sleek pieces that do not attract too much attention. A party hopper will love an attention-grabbing piece, while a woman who navigates high social circles will appreciate an exquisite design.

@iluvsarahii showing off her engagement ring to her fiancé @ayyysebas.

03

Fit

This quality is a no-brainer because the right fit makes a perfect match. The wrong size will ruin the precious moment as you would not be able to wear the ring on the spot. Bringing the piece back for resizing or exchange is the last thing you or he will want to do after the proposal. Keep in mind that getting the size right is tricky unless he can use a ring from your collection to match it perfectly. Seeking help from a family member or best friend would be helpful, too. However, preparing for this moment should ideally be done well in advance. So, a better option would be for him to take you to a jeweler prior to this event so that it could be a complete surprise.

04

Modern, yet timeless design

Women love trendy jewelry, however, your partner must understand that this is not a clear indicator of what you will want in your piece. A perfect ring will need to be timeless in the end, so it is essential that there be a balance between a modern and timeless design. Since trends are always changing, check the latest trends in engagement rings or look to your favorite celebrity's style to find designs that match your taste. Following a trend blindly for a lifetime asset could turn out to be a costly mistake. Ensure that your ring is classy and one that you could see yourself passing down for generations.

Takeaways

Finding the perfect engagement ring is an exciting time for both of you. While the decision can seem overwhelming for him, preparation and the right approach will always ensure that you both feel less pressure come the big moment of truth when he makes the big purchase. If you equip your partner with the right tools that will leave no questions on the table, he will feel so much more confident with his final choice. By giving a clear idea of what you love in an engagement ring, you can be assured that you will love the ring that he presents to you when he is popping the big question.




Hello Summer—Long Hair Is Here To Stay

We love our long locks year-round, so we’re bringing you eight looks that satisfy the most lengthy of tresses. Come along with us as we peruse our latest Pinterest-worthy looks.

An updo is a must-do during the summer, especially if you are blessed with the mess that we call frizz. As seen above, taming them girlies by doing a half up-do and slicking it back with not a hair left astray will allow you to conquer the heat.

Rollercoasters planned for this summer? Then maybe a braided ponytail can be your go-to. We’ve been seeing this updo everywhere, and it’s no wonder why—it’s cute and it’s youthful—exactly how we want to feel this summer, and at all times (let’s be honest).

Here’s another updo ponytail style that looks very sweet and delicate. Perfect for those warm date nights under a sunset… Oh, a girl can dream…

Let them tresses breathe, girl. Breathe. No, your hair can not be up ALL summer, so let your hair receive the adoration it deserves. Yes, people will compliment you on how beautifully long your hair is. Add some wave to frame the face and to give a soft appearance to your look.

We are loving the bangs and the curl at the base of the ponytail. Yes. We love it, and WE APPROVE so add this to your ponytail-updo repertoire.

We love a chunky braid when all of that hair gets overwhelming. Of course, you’ll need very long locks for this. Don’t fret, girlfriend. We got you. Whether you’re blessed with all the hair or not, experimenting with real hair extensions can be a great alternative to try out long hairstyles.

A sleek look can be accomplished just like that, especially when desperate times call for desperate measures. Well, if you plan to be a beach bum like us this summer, an easy slick-back is a life-saver when all that salt has just made your hair into a big, ball of texture. All you need is some good hair product to smooth out your baby hairs, or if that’s your thing, leave them out too. We love our baby hairs around here!

Long hair is here no matter what the weather says. I don’t care. Can you agree? I mean, look at how beautiful her hair looks. We’ll take an order of that, please and thank you. Ciao!




The List Issue 06 | The Full-length Selfie Mirror Literally All Bloggers Have (OR WANT)
 

The Look

We want

We’re all stuck at home, so I mean, what else is a girl to do than sit in front of her mirror and take selfies in her loungewear? We’ve spotted the mirror that is a must for the best fashion bloggers—We’re giving you all the details on how you can get the coveted look too so that you can be the Quarantine QUEEN that you need to be. Keep scrolling!

This gold mirror with ornate detailing, grandiose yet delicate style and vintage-appeal is a statement piece that is trending everywhere it seems. Seen here adorning @ellenvlora’s home.

This gold mirror with ornate detailing, grandiose yet delicate style and vintage-appeal is a statement piece that is trending everywhere it seems. Seen here adorning @ellenvlora’s home.

Selfie-game is important, right! This mirror takes it to a whole other level. Seen here with @delaneychilds at her LA loft.

Selfie-game is important, right! This mirror takes it to a whole other level. Seen here with @delaneychilds at her LA loft.

These mirrors can be found in various designs, but they all share a few characteristics and are inspired by the same aesthetic. They have a vintage, Victorian and feminine feel, they are large, and they are GOLD. Oh, how we do love our gold. @heyheg…

These mirrors can be found in various designs, but they all share a few characteristics and are inspired by the same aesthetic. They have a vintage, Victorian and feminine feel, they are large, and they are GOLD. Oh, how we do love our gold. @heyhegia

See how @heyhegia styled her room in a different way and how beautiful this mirror works in both settings.

See how @heyhegia styled her room in a different way and how beautiful this mirror works in both settings.

@janicejoostemaa went so far as to DIY a gold mirror with embellishments and detailing to get on the trend.

@janicejoostemaa went so far as to DIY a gold mirror with embellishments and detailing to get on the trend.

Do you think @janicejoostemaa nailed the gold mirror look?

Do you think @janicejoostemaa nailed the gold mirror look?

A mantle mirror, anyone? @orionvanessa shows us how elegant this looks together.

A mantle mirror, anyone? @orionvanessa shows us how elegant this looks together.

Quarantine, but make it fashion. Also—look at that lighting and view. @thcartierrug captures it ALL with this mirror.

Quarantine, but make it fashion. Also—look at that lighting and view. @thcartierrug captures it ALL with this mirror.

Let’s just say that these mirrors can be seen everywhere. Add a silk gown and pointy toes, and you have achieved the sensual and seductive aesthetic you desire (or maybe you’re not even trying, and that’s okay too). @thcartierrug

Let’s just say that these mirrors can be seen everywhere. Add a silk gown and pointy toes, and you have achieved the sensual and seductive aesthetic you desire (or maybe you’re not even trying, and that’s okay too). @thcartierrug

Have we convinced you enough? Next, we’ve got the rundown of where you can find similar, if not the same pieces. I mean, who’s judging when you can get the look in a million ways. When it comes down to it, they’re all beautiful pieces. Let us know your favorites, and do tag us if you spot them in the wild. Since these mirrors are in high demand, some of them may currently be sold out, so I suggest you Pin this article or get sale alerts below so you can keep an eye out for when they are back in stock.

 

Get the

Look

It’s love at first sight with this stunning, vintage-inspired mirror fit with jeweled adornments at its apex and edges. Placed at an entryway console, leaned against a wall, or positioned over a fireplace mantel, this mirror magnifies any room with …

It’s love at first sight with this stunning, vintage-inspired mirror fit with jeweled adornments at its apex and edges. Placed at an entryway console, leaned against a wall, or positioned over a fireplace mantel, this mirror magnifies any room with a grandiose, yet delicate appeal. @anthropologie

A touch of florals at its peak lend this mirror a subtle charm suited for any style interior. @anthropologie

A touch of florals at its peak lend this mirror a subtle charm suited for any style interior. @anthropologie

This mirror features shell detailing at the top, and of course, that arched shape that we poured our hearts out over in a previous issue. @anthropologie

This mirror features shell detailing at the top, and of course, that arched shape that we poured our hearts out over in a previous issue. @anthropologie

*Available June 24, 2020

Featuring a pair of preening peacocks and an antique-inspired finish, this mirror lends a touch of charm to any space. @anthropologie

Featuring a pair of preening peacocks and an antique-inspired finish, this mirror lends a touch of charm to any space. @anthropologie

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The List Issue 05 | Pleated Lampshades

The Look

That inspired us

The Mads Caprani lamp — a ’70s-era Danish creation that mixes a curved bentwood spine with a cast-iron base and a creamy fluted shade. @_bomijin

The Mads Caprani lamp — a ’70s-era Danish creation that mixes a curved bentwood spine with a cast-iron base and a creamy fluted shade. @_bomijin

The Mads Caprani lamp — a ’70s-era Danish creation that mixes a curved bentwood spine with a cast-iron base and a creamy fluted shade. @our_studio_

The Mads Caprani lamp — a ’70s-era Danish creation that mixes a curved bentwood spine with a cast-iron base and a creamy fluted shade. @our_studio_

Mads Caprani Lamp

 
 

Get

The Look

Kitschy, retro vibes with this nostalgic Danish-inspired fabric pleated lamp shade with accordion pleats. Urban Outfitters

Kitschy, retro vibes with this nostalgic Danish-inspired fabric pleated lamp shade with accordion pleats. Urban Outfitters

Pleated Lamp Shade

The Delilah Table Lamp takes cues from Italian modern design with its sloping base and pleated white shade. Available in soft neutral hues, this lamp glows with contemporary style. West Elm

The Delilah Table Lamp takes cues from Italian modern design with its sloping base and pleated white shade. Available in soft neutral hues, this lamp glows with contemporary style. West Elm

The Delilah Table Lamp takes cues from Italian modern design with its sloping base and pleated white shade. Available in soft neutral hues, this lamp glows with contemporary style. West Elm

The Delilah Table Lamp takes cues from Italian modern design with its sloping base and pleated white shade. Available in soft neutral hues, this lamp glows with contemporary style. West Elm

Delilah Table Lamp

Cream/ivory linen, knife pleated lampshade, available in two styles. Danish designed, manufactured using traditional techniques. @openproject_studio

Cream/ivory linen, knife pleated lampshade, available in two styles. Danish designed, manufactured using traditional techniques. @openproject_studio

Similar option

Cream Pleated Lampshade

 

how we achieved

the look

Hello Lovely Living achieved the pleated lampshade look for less by searching Craigslist. The brass and peach pleated lampshade was purchased for a $20 steal. @hellolovelyliving

Hello Lovely Living achieved the pleated lampshade look for less by searching Craigslist. The brass and peach pleated lampshade was purchased for a $20 steal. @hellolovelyliving

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The List Issue 04 | The Pink Chair You Need In Your Life
Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

Pink velvet shell feather chair with tufted upholstery and brass finish for feminine, modern bohemian, and minimalist spaces. source

 

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The List Issue 03 | NEW Target Home Finds For Spring

11" x 14" Set of 2 Framed Wall Photo Print - Project 62™

Textured Wood Simple Accent Lamp White - Project 62™

Lumbar Printed Pieced Pillow Neutral/White - Project 62™

Lana Wood Armed Dining Chair Natural - Project 62™

15" x 7.7" Decorative Terra Cotta Bottle Vase Beige - Project 62™

Ceramic Ringed Accent Lamp Aged White - Opalhouse™

20" x 20" Framed Canvas Pink - Opalhouse™

Block Tufted Rug - Project 62™

Britanna 4pk Wicker Patio Dining Chair Natural/Linen - Opalhouse™

Alexandria Round Forged Brass Drink Table with Glass Top - Threshold™

 

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